How to get kids to enjoy a walk!

I have always loved a good walk. Walking the same route with your dog twice a day enables an immediate appreciation of the changing seasons.  A proper good hike across a moor,up some challenging hills, or all the way round a big lake gives a fantastic sense of exhilaration, adventure and achievement.  Unfortunately, many of these principles are a little abstract for young children to appreciate.  Young children mostly live, joyously, in the now.  No promise of a sense of achievement is going to get them up that hill.  So what is the best way to get them to look forward to and enjoy that walk?

And we’re off!

First things first, be realistic. Your 3 year old who mostly travels around in a car is not going to suddenly complete a 4 mile hike.  Encourage them to walk as much as possible day to day.  It is not possible for everyone I know, but even if its parking a bit further away from school or nursery to give them a chance to work those muscles, give it a go!

Secondly, big it up!  It’s not just a ‘walk’. It’s an ‘adventure walk’ or a ‘discovery walk’.  If they sense you are excited about it they are much more likely to be excited themselves.

Now that is a find! Too big to fit in the treasure bag though!.

Thirdly, prepare! You are going to need a decent, comfortable back pack.

  1. Clearly, you need to know where you are going. There are lots of books in different areas specifically aimed at children. Or of course the good old internet, for instance have a look at www.walkswithbuggies.com or the very handy www.babyroutes.co.uk.  Look for a walk with some interesting features, a ruined castle, a bridge, a stream a great view, a lake or pond or a good tree to climb.  Ideally, there should be a destination point, somewhere you are heading for.  Involve them as much as is appropriate for their age.  Show them pictures or have a look at a map.
  2. Now for the really important bit, they are going to need something to focus on.  My kids’ favourite is Nature Bingo.  Or try a scavenger hunt. Or if they are a bit older and show any interest get one of the nature spotting books like the ‘Usbourne Spotters Guide to Nature’ or a bit simpler,’ I-spy Nature’ by Michelin, there are lots of others.  You will need to bring a pencil. You are also going to need some patience, there will inevitably be a lot of stopping to fill in the bingo or book.

    Could it be a fairy house?

  3. Perhaps you think your child prefers counting and numbers to ‘Nature’.  So try asking them to spot a certain number of something easy to find, blue flowers, trees with creepers on, fallen logs etc – you will soon find them tearing around.
  4. Make sure you take snacks and drinks.  Tell them they will get their mini feast when you reach your mid point destination.  You know your own child, if you know they are not going to get far without some morsel to eat make sure you take some smaller thing to keep them going on the way.
  5. Always take a penknife.  You’ll never regret it.
  6. You know the rest: if it’s sunny take hats and suncream, if it’s wet take waterproofs, if it’s cold take hats and gloves. If there is some small toy your child is attached to – a car, a teddy, that random bit of plastic they were given at the last party – fine take that too.

Finally, engage them! So you are all prepared, you’ve found your way to the beginning of the walk.  Now get going!  If it is somewhere you haven’t been before you can encourage them to scout ahead, of course as long as you know there aren’t any roads.  There isn’t much in the woods that can harm them, no bears in the UK.

Engage them straight away with the Nature Bingo or whatever you have chosen.  Make sure they know what a stinging nettle is -and to avoid them. Let them explore, if they want to know what is at the top of that steep bank let them have a look.  After all this is an ‘adventure walk!’

Found a brilliant tree to climb!

Some more tips:

  • If they are flagging give them encouragement to look for the next feature ‘I think I can see a stream ahead’, ‘ Is that the end of the woods?’, ‘Which way is that signpost pointing?’.
  • Look for a good walking ‘staff’ – they love it!
  • Take a digital camera and allow them to take pictures, maybe you could make a little book about your walk when you get home.
  • Take a small bag to collect ‘treasures’ in.
  • If they are knackered take a break.
  • The secret weapon – take a friend!

When you make it back give them lots of praise.  Now they know what that sense of achievement feels like!

Is that the Fantastic Mr Fox’s Hill? Let’s climb it and see!

Campsite Review Updated – Beeches Farm, Chepstow, Forest of Dean.

 A slope. Every campsite should have one.

Where: Beeches Farm, Nr Chepstow, Forest of Dean

How much: £6 per adult, £4 per child, under 3’s free.  £2 per dog per visit!

Campfires:  In stone fire pits or very strurdy braziers, free.

Wood: Sold at reception

Types of camping: Tents, campervans, caravans, motorhomes.  Electric Hook up available.

Facilties: Toilet and shower block with indoor and outdoor washing up facilities.

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Chinese lanterns – maybe not.

I get nervous everytime I see someone set off a chinese lantern.  I mean this is a naked flame being sent off wherever the wind cares to take it.  It could land anywhere.  Theoretically, they come down when they have burnt out but it certainly isn’t always the case. However, I had never researched my fears – now I have. Continue reading

Campsite Review: Eweleaze Farm, nr Weymouth, Dorset

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Where: Eweleaze Farm, Nr Weymouth, Dorset – ONLY OPEN in AUGUST

How much: It’s a bit complicated, you will need to check the website, but one weekend night for two adults and two young children cost us £38, it is cheaper on weekdays.

Campfires: Yes, anywhere you like (in accordance with safety regulations)

Wood: Yes, sold in the farmyard £5 per bag.

Types of Camping: Tents and small campervans only.  Bell tents can also be hired, set up and ready to go from Honeybells.

Facilities: Mostly composting toilets, a few flushable toilets, solar heated showers, very basic outdoor washing up areas, shop, bakery, wood fired pizzas, coffees etc.  Animals to pet, hay bale kids fun, puppies to walk, ponies to ride!

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Campsite Review: Wo-Wo (Wasbourne Manor) Campsite, Sussex

Camping with friends at Wo Wo.

Ok, lets get the negatives over with the toilets and showers in the central reception area are in portacabins and up quite steep steps.  A bit tatty and not very many of them.  There are also composting toilets and portaloos dotted around, usually in a reasonable state. It took us a little while to discover these different toilets as there where none in our field. But that aside, lets move on to the good stuff!  Continue reading

Be kind to campervans.

I was not someone who ‘always wanted’ a campervan.  I have enjoyed tent camping for many years. We have camped in a tiny two man tent, a slightly bigger two man dome tent and a medium sized 4 man family tent.  So I do understand  and wholly support the desire for campsites free of caravans and motorhomes.  Recently there has been a surge in the use of bell tents and sites with yurts, I love this too.

Bell tent loveliness.

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Campfires? Yes please.

There are a few parameters that a campsite must fulfill for me to want to camp there. The most important to me is the ability to have a campfire. The fire is the focus of the camp. It provides warmth, light and a place to cook (even though the campervan has a hob we prefer to cook over the fire as often possible). Part of this blog will be our ongoing efforts to optimize over the fire cooking, recipes, equipment etc. CampingDad is especially keen on this stuff!

Love getting a small cooking fire going in the morning.

The other really cool thing about campsites that allow campfires is that they often fulfill some of my other parameters for finding a good campsite. I say no to to club houses, restaurants and bars, tents and caravans in regimented lines (urgh). Yes to large pitches and especially those who let you choose where you pitch. Yes to views, lovely tumbling rivers and streams, ropeswings, woods, good walks from the campsite. Ahh, makes me smile just thinking about it.

CampingDad thinks I am a bit too militant in always demanding a campfire so I try to keep my mind open to sites that look lovely but just don’t allow campfires (but why??). I do try, really.